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Worried about the UNKNOWN? There is no such thing. Nope.
You, my friend, are freaking out over a very specific known. It is the known your mind conjured as what could be. So, if you ‘fear the unknown’, you can…
This is where it begins and ends…and everything in between. This is about your headspace, what’s important to you, and reaping the benefit of it when you collect the chips called CONFIDENCE. There is only one you and you are here to be that.
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Doing Your Best Yet You Are Still Anxious, Screwing-up, Afraid of the UNKNOWN…and, Perhaps, Failing? What to DO? Victory Starts HERE: With Your WORD DOMINATION!!
Failures, Screw-Ups and Unknowns… Oh-No! …would make anybody anxious. Right? Think again. Words are so much fun because, well, there are so many of them to choose from. (You…
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Oh, I know You’ve Thought It: I May Kill the Next Person Who Tells Me to ‘BE HERE NOW’.
…WTF. I am HERE NOW. I may be thinking about tomorrow, but I am here now. Okay. I may be thinking about yesterday, but I am here now. __ What…
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GUILT (Part II): The ACCUSER!
The Accuser. The person who accuses you does not feel guilt. Rather, that person feels an opposite sensation: the THRILL OF SELF-RIGHTEOUSNESS! Pointing a finger can feel so powerful for…
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GUILT (Part I): What Is This Rascal?
It is one of those words you throw around kind of casually, right? ...like you know what it means... Do you? Let's discuss. Shall we? The Feeling. The act of…
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IS IT GOING TO GET EASIER?
Maybe there would be more help… or, thankfully, less need for it. Maybe there would be less confusion… or, finally, an understandable explanation. Maybe there would be more shared beliefs……
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“Doctor, What Do I HAVE?” [The woman in the white clinic jacket slowly pushes her chair back to look up at you, sitting there on the cool examination table draped by your sterile paper-towel-poncho.]
She looks into your eyes. “I’ll tell you what you have”, she says, backed by thousands of hours of study and tens-of-thousands-of-patient-visits. “It is called a NERVOUS SYSTEM.” Good doctor.…
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THE ULTIMATE DETOX: GETTING RID OF GUILT.
When I was at my 20th High School Reunion, a woman named Peggy came up to me and apologized profusely and with great and sincere emotion for what she had…
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IT’S YOUR BRAIN! YOU HAVE A RIGHT TO KNOW.
I don’t know how they have done it. With their brain scans and electroencephalograms, MRIs and sleep studies: Experts have measured, analyzed and come up with the fact that you,…
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Where’d Your Expectations Come From? Who Made Them, Anyway? Did the Stork Bring Them? And While We’re On This Topic, Who Has Expectations of You…And Why?
Where do expectations come from? Are they just fancy imaginations from the peanut gallery? Do your expectations have anything to do with reality? Whose reality? Yours or someone else’s? Expectations…